Do I have to read romance books to know? Or do I just loose it to someone that I may trust? Is it always this complicated to find a man to trust? I know that these days, is impossible to find a real man whom to trust but... how long should I wait?

All right am a 28 year old virgin. Lets say that I've seen way too many failed relationships to try to want to loose it. All right I maybe a cynic. But I like to know... Is it taboo to maintain my virginity?